4 Things You'll Want to Release

If You Want to Live a Soul-Inspired Life

For Your Mastery, Joy, and Purpose

If you want to live a soul-inspired life — you’ll want to give up these common misconceptions. Let’s look at the four perspectives that run counter to your Soul Truth. As you release these widespread myths, you expand the beauty and power of living from your Sovereign Self. And what a wonderful experience that is!

If you want to live a soul-inspired life, then you’ll want to give up:

1. How you think things “should” be, or what success “should” look like.

We are surrounded by inherited ideas about what success is, or who we should be Yet, “shoulds” are almost always someone else’s perspective, or they are a personal standard that we think should apply to everyone.

And often, “shoulds” don’t reflect what you actually want to do.

Giving up “shoulds” — gives you back the power to choose from pure desire, rather than choosing from external paradigms, or projecting your perspectives onto others.

This matters because what we think is possible, and much of the world’s suffering is created by these unexamined assumptions.

Your soul knows that what you really want and the ways it can be delivered are infinite. Your soul also knows that we all get to choose how we experience life — as sovereign individuals.

So, to be soul-inspired means that you’re choosing from what you genuinely want, and letting the broader field of potential do her magic. No “have-tos” or “shoulds” are required. And you’re recognizing other peoples’s right to do the same.

“Shoulds” also limit how things can manifest. If we think a desired outcome should arrive in a certain way, then it can only come that way. We make that true for ourselves, even though there are infinite ways in which the desired good can come.

When “shoulds” dissolve you can be delighted by something even better than what you can conceive possible. And the wonder that happens when you remain open to “this or something better” is part of the magic most people are seeking. So, have fun with this!

Your soul knows that there is so much more available to you right now ...

2. The need for certainty or physical proof before your desires materialize.

I get this one isn’t easy; I’ve struggled with this one myself.

So, I know that this will stop you from having what you really want, without exception, because everything new in your life experience, will begin as a possibility first.

Yet, when well cultivated, a desire can gracefully grow from a tiny seed … to a mighty, thriving planet, solar system, or universe!

The weeds of fear-based thinking can quickly dissolve. And the sun of Love lets your desires gracefully come into physical form.

Anything new requires a willingness to believe that it is possible before there is physical proof.

Yes, you can love your desires into existence!

Yes, you can trust that your heartfelt desires are done, even before they materialize. And yes, you can be playful about all of this too!

This is where happy endings (and happy money) come from — happy journeys! And to give you relief from the idea that you always have to believe — notice, I didn’t say 100%, all the time. You just have to be willing to believe, and apply your perspectives in a way that supports you.

And if you’re called to expand your Just Believe skills, you can get my book, “Just Believe: How Faith In Yourself Shifts Everything”.

3. Self-criticism, thinking you’re broken or not enough, or being unkind yourself.

We want to grow and expand; we are wired for that. It’s an evolutionary impulse. But, that doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with you now if you have an aspect of your life experience that challenges you. I see way too many caring souls in human bodies being hard on themselves, and making themselves wrong for not achieving some impossible standard of perfection. Self-criticism, or that task-master overseer self-talk is never coming from your soul’s perspective, ever. Your soul’s perspective, is always, 100% of the time, pure love for your journey here. Always! Your soul sees the opportunities, the clarity, your beauty.

The most powerful path — is through unconditional self-love and soul-nurturing inner dialogue.

My Spirit Council told me many years ago; “you are never broken, you are evolving!”

These words are life-changing when we realize that the impulse for evolution is part of our DNA . The Truth is — there will always be what we’ve already learned and accomplished … and there will also always be a gap from what has not yet manifested.

This is what it means to be eternal. And this is good — we never truly arrive or get it all done.

Your desires call life force through you, and give you purpose and aliveness!

So, the idea of getting to some ultimate destination where you will be done with everything , where you finally arrive — is thankfully a fallacy.

A soul-inspired life calls us to remember the perfection in evolution, that we will naturally be called toward more. This is how we grow. This gives us aliveness, joy, direction, and purpose!

So, happiness and satisfaction are thankfully not determined by current conditions or whether or not you achieve a goal.. Your way-of-being determines that, and you have 100% control over that. Yet, another beautiful quality for you to celebrate and cultivate! You are already whole and complete as you continue to evolve. So, no missing parts, and there’s nothing to prove.

Your perfect now because there will always be more to create and learn.

Living Life As a Sovereign Being

4. Victim-consciousness is rooted in the false idea that life is done to us, rather than through us.

As long as we believe that someone or something external is doing something to us, we will not be in a position to be soul-realized, masterful creators.

Yes, we are in a culture that can emphasize blame, but this is when we are called to remember — we always get to choose how we see the world, our circumstances, global events, ourselves, and everyone in it.

And therein resides our greatest tool and magic — how we choose to see. Your outlook is not only how you shape your reality, it is also a powerful key to Self actualization, to being your most authentic and inspired SELF.

Which is why soul-realization is my favorite transformational journey to facilitate, for who you know yourself to be — is at the root of all of your life experiences. When you get who You are, everything that follows shifts for the better. You feel freer, eternally loved, deeply at peace, and at home in your physical body. This isn’t something you’ll learn in a short blog post, because YOU are vast and multifaceted. But, I do invite you to sit with the energy of these powerful words, and see where you may be called to more fully own your power. What do you want to release, as in once and for all, let it go? What are you ready to claim for yourself and your life?

Our greatest tool and magic — how we choose to see.

Living Life As a Sovereign Being ...

What do you want to do with what you’ve read here?

If you want to move from information to soul-inspired creating, give yourself time to sit with and contemplate this message.

Resist the temptation to move on to consuming more content, before you give yourself the space to consider how you want to use this.

We integrate more quickly when we slow down. To evolve with grace means slowing down to speed up,

Read this message again if you’re called. Smile, breathe deeply, and …

here are a few journaling questions to help you take in your key opportunities.

Am I giving my power away anywhere?
What do I want to release that makes me feel small or work harder than I want to?
What exciting new experiences do I now choose to create?

And so it is!

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Much Love,

Elari

P.S. If you are empathic or highly intuitive and pick up a lot from others, that can impact your need for certainty. If so, here’s a video to help you discover where certainty really comes from. And if you got something from this, and aren’t currently part of my subscriber community, you can sign up here.

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Elari Onawa

I’ve been leading Life On Purpose and Self-Discovery programs since 2003. Prior to that, I led large organizations for 20+ years to the C-Level, helping them align with their dreams and goals. Then I followed my soul’s promptings to help high capacity, conscious women (and a few brave men too) to release the burnout producing ways-of being in favor of a soul-nurturing way to work, live, and thrive. If you’re ready to embrace more of your higher aspects, and connect with the loving support that is available for you … I can help you have that! You can discover how to work with me here.